Wednesday, November 4, 2009

What kind of feelings do you have when you think you’ve fallen in love?

When people first experience falling in love, it often starts as attraction, sexual feeling can also be a part of this attraction. People at this stage may daydream about a new boyfriend or girlfriend.
It sure feels like love but its not love yet. It hasn’t had time to grow into emotional closeness that’s needed for love because feelings of attraction and sexual interest are new and they’re directed at a person we want a relationship with.
It’s not surprising that we confuse attraction with love. It’s also intense, exciting and hard to soil out. The crazy intensity of passion and attraction phase fades a bit after a while like putting all our energy into winning a race. This kind of passion is exhilarating but far too extreme to continue going forever. If a relationship is destined to last, this is where closeness enters the picture. The early passionate intensity may fade but a deep affectionate attachment takes its place.


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